Self
worth and security are the primary root reasons for our
propensity to become addicted.
Example: An invitation lands inside your mailbox and many
people that you know and don?t know are going to be
there. Feeling unsecure about your abilities, you summon
up the courage to consume three or four drinks to take off
the edge and loosen yourself before the event takes place.
This concept seems to work and now you don?t just do it
for regular functions, you begin to use it as a crutch more
frequently. Your workplace may be the next testing ground
or worst, at home.
Another example is when women seek out the same type of
man as a patterned behavior because they feel within
themselves that they simply do not deserve better. This self
worth can manifest itself into many variations of an
addictive personality or patterned behavior.
What would happen if we completely abolished all of our
addictions, whether big or small, serious or not? Would we
be forfeiting a part of our very fiber, the weave that keeps
us together?
Not only can the mind play tricks on itself and make it
believe that it needs something, but it can also become lucid
and understand that it can stand alone without the
assistance of external stimuli to artificially boost its worth
or security.
Obviously, the latter is where we would all love to be,
however, no one can break obsessive patterns unless they
are understood, acknowledged, and then taken apart
methodically.
This must come from within the person!
Analyzing your own behaviors from dusk to dawn and
understanding that every action and decision has an end
result of good or bad consequences, can prompt the ?ball to
suddenly move forward.?
If denial skews logic even after acknowledging that
negatives come out of specific actions, then additional
introspection should be indicated or an external intervention
employed.
If you let your security and self worth derive from your
past, then your past will always haunt you.
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